There is nothing in this world as white or black...every one has a grey side to them. What irritates me the most is when there is this divide of good and bad among people. My arguement is very simple...Nobody except the individual would know whether he/she is good or bad. I might be opening a can or worms on this but there is nobody in this world who would have done all bad deeds and not a single good deed and vice versa. The definition of good or bad is very individualistic and cannot be generalised. What is good to me might be bad to someone else.
Some people are open enough to admit this fact while a mojority of them live under this shadow which they try to conceal. Howmuch ever they try to do so, truth will emerge triumphant. In the process of decieving yourself by claiming that your are good all through, you develop a sense of unknown guilt within you which keeps haunting you at various stages in your life. In the other case, by not realising the small good deeds that you may be doing unknowingly, you are constantly conditioning your mind to the fact that you are bad. Both ways you are not living life and enjoying every moment. Another critical deterrant to people's happiness is this famous question - "What will others think? - Log Kya sochenge?" It is OK to be selfish on this. If you yourself are not convinced by your actions, then forget about what others will think, it doesnt have any value.
Every individual should have the guts to say that he/she has a grey side to them - Afterall we are humans and not GOD...Think about and do share your thoughts ....Chao
wow wow wow :P have heard u speak abt this :) gud one
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